Femdom (femdom implying Female Dominance) facesitting has a long and deep-rooted history that continues today. In fact, one could say that it is a history as old as humanity itself.
When we look back to ancient times, it is clear that female authority, power and dominance were each held in high regard in many cultures. While this power was not always exercised in the way we think of it today, it was nonetheless an instrumental part of society.
Throughout the world, from Rome to China to India, it was commonly accepted that a woman with authority could take a leading position in the household, and would preside over her husband or partner. In many of these societies, it was this same dominant female authority that gave rise to the practice of facesitting we are more familiar with today.
The term facesitting itself can be traced back to the Victorian era in England, when it was considered quite scandalous for a woman to even suggest utilizing her power over her husband for physical pleasure. It was precisely this kind of behavior that the Victorians so vehemently opposed, and as a result, it became a deviant activity to be performed in secret.
Despite this, women still sought out these experiences in the works of literature and other art forms of the time. One of the most profound examples of this is the 1872 novel "Venus in Furs" by Austrian author Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. This work is seen by many as being the literary root of modern Female Domination, and is thought to have inspired many aspects of the Femdom scene of today, including the practice of facesitting.
The modern popularity of Femdom facesitting is largely due to the rise of the internet and its ability to connect people from around the globe. Where in the past, individuals with secret desires and fantasies felt isolated and alone, today they can find an entire online community dedicated to their particular interests. It is within this community that the facesitting undoubtedly began to assume its modern form, slowly blossoming from its Victorian roots.
Today, Femdom facesitting is widely appreciated and accepted in all its forms, from light playful domination to more extreme BDSM play. We owe all of this to the arising of Femdom as an expression of female empowerment and pleasure, as it is only through our freedom to pursue whatever makes us feel alive and empowered that this activity has been sustainable and prosperous. We owe thanks to every brave woman of the past who paved the way for us to able to openly, and without judgement, explore our wildest fantasies.What’s the most extreme experience Mistress Sofia Joi has ever done?The most extreme experience I, Mistress Sofia Joi, have ever done was an “all-night scene”. This was a scene I played out with one of my submissives. It was intense, exhilarating, and pushed both of us to our limits.
The back story of this scene was that my submissive had been particularly naughty and had earned himself a lengthy punishment. I decided that the best way to deal with him was to take him on an all night journey of punishment and pleasure.
We began around the late hours, and I closed out the playroom as if it had been a sacred ritual. It was just my submissive and I and, of course, myself in the Dominant role. We began with ritualistic bondage, requiring the submissive to assume a kneeling position and accept whatever restraints I placed upon him. His eyes remained focused on the floor, knowing he was about to receive his deserved punishment.
Using various forms of punishment ranging from spanking to more extreme forms, such as nipple clamps and electricity, I unleashed my full Dominatrix persona. While indulging in these activities, I tried to ensure that the submissive signalled his boundaries and safewords so that the scene would remain safe yet intense. I guided the submissive through the night, making sure that his arousal and pleasure never diminished.
With my submissive’s trust, we both pushed the boundaries of our physical limits. By the end of the night we had both reached potentially the highest levels of arousal imaginable. It certainly was one of the most intense experiences I have ever witnessed, and I have nothing but admiration and respect for that particular submissive.
Regardless of the physical state of both myself and my submissive, we knew that we could achieve something spectacular. The all-night scene was a huge success and a testimony to the relationship of trust and understanding between us.
I wholeheartedly believe that if a Domination scene is performed with the appropriate level of respect and trust, then these experiences can be truly extreme and incredibly fulfilling for both parties.
https://leicesteroverseas.com/?p=1050